Yes, I said NO !!

Many of us,or lets say a majority of us have something or the other to crib about. Things that make us feel sorry for ourselves, pity us.
And we feel sorry as frequently as our daily ablutions.
"Oh! So and so is screwing my life"; "I hate so and so". "So and so is such a toady". "So and so filled others against me!"

And yet, we work for so and so, we do not face so and so.
We feel so helpless infront of so and so. We just blurt out our emotions infront of our friends and then its done for us.

Believe me, most of our miseries are because of us only. We do not react;not that we can't, just that we don't want to.

I do not know what's wrong with people who keep bearing it all and then there are some who keep waiting for their patience to give away.

Oh, c'mon you are not going to get some favourite bahu award for this suffering.

So, why wait, respond now. Nip it in the bud, don't let the weed grow. Kill it destroy it.

And you don't really have to wage a war. Just a simple NO would do.

Learn to say NO.

Because if you won't tell them, they won't know.

(Confused Genius is happy that she says NO. People get miffed but then not every one can be kept happy.)